Still winter in England
Jan. 14th, 2019 08:14 pmSo, I handed in my final Te Reo Māori assessment at the weekend and of course now I'm convinced I did something horribly wrong in the written. But it's too late and I haven't been able to make myself review it to check.
Tomorrow is the third anniversary of moving into this house. It's still a good house, we still like it and we are slowly doing the necessary maintenance. Hopefully this year the front and back door. I do a lot with the garden (hopefully the alliums I planted out the front will come up).
Following a talk at work last week, I'm experimenting with mindfulness. The app provided by the people who did the talk is clearly designed for use with headphones because the first time A and I sat down to concentrate on our breathing for ten minutes, we did way longer than that as it kept timing out on my phone. Now I set a timer. Doing an actual ten minutes—as opposed to the however long but at least twice that—is actually not too bad. I'm not 100% convinced by this particular app generally, so if anyone has one they'd particularly recommend, let me know.
My grandad (my mum's dad) was recently moved to the hospital section of his care home (he had been in an assisted living apartment for the last 18 months or so). He's rallied a bit with the higher level of care, but the general estimate is that he'll last maybe a couple of months. And you know what, I'm okay with that, as are the family members I've talked to. He's 89, he misses Grandma, he wants to go home but can't look after himself properly and he's in a place where people are taking good care of him. Mum and the aunts visit regularly and have all necessary power of attorneys, so everything is undercontrol on that front. All appropriate plans are made and they know where things are.
When Grandma died, I found out via Whatsapp, which was fine at the time, but less so for a few months after when everytime I saw Whatsapp messages that had arrived overnight I was wondering who had died now! I forgot to make it clear to Mum last time we spoke that if possible I'd rather be woken in the middle of the night than wake up to a text message. I need to do that.
It's dinner time - steak & chips & gravy in response to it being shark week. Kua rite te kai.
Tomorrow is the third anniversary of moving into this house. It's still a good house, we still like it and we are slowly doing the necessary maintenance. Hopefully this year the front and back door. I do a lot with the garden (hopefully the alliums I planted out the front will come up).
Following a talk at work last week, I'm experimenting with mindfulness. The app provided by the people who did the talk is clearly designed for use with headphones because the first time A and I sat down to concentrate on our breathing for ten minutes, we did way longer than that as it kept timing out on my phone. Now I set a timer. Doing an actual ten minutes—as opposed to the however long but at least twice that—is actually not too bad. I'm not 100% convinced by this particular app generally, so if anyone has one they'd particularly recommend, let me know.
My grandad (my mum's dad) was recently moved to the hospital section of his care home (he had been in an assisted living apartment for the last 18 months or so). He's rallied a bit with the higher level of care, but the general estimate is that he'll last maybe a couple of months. And you know what, I'm okay with that, as are the family members I've talked to. He's 89, he misses Grandma, he wants to go home but can't look after himself properly and he's in a place where people are taking good care of him. Mum and the aunts visit regularly and have all necessary power of attorneys, so everything is undercontrol on that front. All appropriate plans are made and they know where things are.
When Grandma died, I found out via Whatsapp, which was fine at the time, but less so for a few months after when everytime I saw Whatsapp messages that had arrived overnight I was wondering who had died now! I forgot to make it clear to Mum last time we spoke that if possible I'd rather be woken in the middle of the night than wake up to a text message. I need to do that.
It's dinner time - steak & chips & gravy in response to it being shark week. Kua rite te kai.