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Apparently, what it takes to turn me into a puddle of mush or a generally blissed out state is a good dinner, delectable chocolate, extremely nice port, and a divine shoulder rub. I have been the fortunate possessor of all of these tonight. I feel quite pliable and exceedingly relaxed.

Does anyone know of a word that means something along the lines of commandeer, take over, obtain, plunder, pillage, only not any of these but sounds like colander and starts with p?